How Each Zodiac Sign Should Handle an Ex Texting During Mercury Retrograde

Mercury retrograde is already a chaotic time full of mixed signals, miscommunication, and unexpected blasts from the past. And when your ex suddenly reappears in your messages? Things can get emotionally confusing fast. Every zodiac sign handles emotional triggers differently, but this retrograde season calls for smart reflection, not impulsive decisions. Before you reply (or even read that message), here’s how your sign should deal with an ex reaching out during Mercury retrograde.

Aries – Pause Before Responding

Aries usually reacts instantly, but this is a time to pause. That fire inside you might want answers—or revenge—but don’t let your temper lead. Give yourself at least a day before you reply, if at all.

Taurus – Don’t Romanticize the Past

Taurus often misses the comfort of familiar love. But just because it felt safe doesn’t mean it was right. Ground yourself in the present. Your heart deserves growth, not a repeat of old mistakes.

Gemini – Get Clarity, Not Closure

Gemini will want to talk, analyze, and maybe flirt. But ask yourself: are you seeking truth or just drama? If you do respond, be clear about your boundaries and avoid stirring up emotional confusion.

Cancer – Protect Your Heart First

Cancer may feel all the feelings at once when an ex texts. But remember: Mercury retrograde loves emotional trickery. You don’t owe them anything. Protect your peace before reopening any old wounds.

Leo – Don’t Fall for Flattery

Leo loves affection, and an ex might use sweet words to pull you back in. But be careful—are they being sincere or just craving attention? Let your self-worth guide your reply (or non-reply).

Virgo – Overthinking Will Exhaust You

Virgo will analyze every emoji, word, and punctuation mark. But don’t drive yourself crazy decoding a message that may not mean much. If it doesn’t serve your healing, you can just let it go.

Libra – Decide What You Want

Libra may try to keep things “friendly” or avoid making waves. But now’s the time to ask yourself: do I actually want this connection back, or am I avoiding discomfort by staying polite?

Scorpio – Don’t Reopen Old Wounds

Scorpio feels deeply, even if they pretend not to. If an ex hurt you, this message could stir up old pain. Ask yourself if it’s worth reopening a door that once led to destruction.

Sagittarius – Don’t Chase the “What If”

Sagittarius is curious and impulsive and may view an ex’s message as a thrilling challenge. But remember why it ended. Mercury retrograde isn’t the time to chase “what if”—it’s a time to reflect.

Capricorn – Stick to the Facts

Capricorn should keep it logical. Ask: what is the purpose of this message? If it’s vague or emotionally manipulative, don’t engage. You’ve got better things to focus on than emotional detours from the past.

Aquarius – Keep Your Boundaries Firm

Aquarius is great at detaching, but even they can get caught in the weird emotional fog of Mercury retrograde. If you’ve moved on, there’s no need to explain or rehash. Silence can be powerful.

Pisces – Don’t Let Nostalgia Win

Pisces will instantly feel all the love again, but don’t drown in memories. Mercury retrograde loves to trick your heart into forgetting the hard parts. Stay grounded in why things ended—and why it’s okay.