Every man needs to hear certain words from his partner—but what exactly depends a lot on his zodiac sign. Some need reassurance, others crave admiration, and a few want to feel deeply understood. Astrology gives us insight into what makes each sign feel loved, respected, and secure. Whether your man is fiery and bold, soft and sensitive, or cool and collected, there’s something specific he’s waiting to hear—something that speaks directly to his emotional core. If you’re trying to connect deeper, heal a rift, or simply show him you get him, here’s exactly what you should say, based on his zodiac sign.
Aries
“Your passion inspires me—and I trust you to lead.” Aries men want to feel like they’re winning at life, especially in love. He needs to hear that you believe in his drive and that you admire his courage. Telling him he motivates you lights his fire even more. But beyond compliments, he needs to feel like he’s your number one—your go-to, your champion. He won’t always ask for validation, but hearing that you see and support his ambition will make him feel emotionally secure. Be direct, be bold, and let him know that his fire lights your world.
Taurus
“I feel safe with you, and I appreciate everything you do for us.” Taurus men need to feel grounded in their relationships. They might not be flashy, but they love deeply and consistently. He wants to know that his efforts—big or small—are noticed and valued. Tell him that his steady love gives you peace. Remind him that his loyalty doesn’t go unnoticed. Taurus men aren’t looking for grand gestures—they want meaningful words that reflect stability, comfort, and long-term appreciation. When you show gratitude for the emotional home he provides, you feed the deepest part of his heart.
Gemini
“I love how your mind works—talk to me, I’m listening.” Gemini men need mental stimulation and open communication. They thrive on feeling interesting, clever, and heard. Telling him that you enjoy talking with him and learning from him makes him feel loved in the way that matters most to him. Even more, encouraging his curiosity and creativity builds deep connection. When you tell him you value his ideas, humor, and unique perspective, you’re telling him he’s not just loved—but understood. Keep it playful, keep it smart, and let him know that his voice matters to you more than anyone’s.
Cancer
“I’m not going anywhere—I see your heart, and I love you for it.” Cancer men are protective, sensitive, and deeply emotional under their tough shell. What they need most is emotional safety. Telling him you’re here for the long haul and that you accept his vulnerabilities is like balm to his soul. Cancer men often hide behind silence or mood shifts when they feel hurt. So, being the one who reassures them with warmth and consistency builds trust. Let him know that his emotions don’t scare you—that you see his loyalty and that he doesn’t have to protect his heart from you.
Leo
“You amaze me—I’m proud to be yours.” Leo men want to feel like they’re admired, desired, and respected. He needs to know that he’s your hero, your king, your person. A Leo thrives when his partner sees his light and reflects it back to him. Tell him he inspires you, that his confidence is attractive, and that you’re honored to be by his side. But don’t flatter just to flatter—he can sense when words aren’t sincere. Tell him exactly what he’s done that makes you proud. When you feed his ego with truth and love, he gives you his whole heart.
Virgo
“I see how hard you try, and I’m so thankful for you.” Virgo men are often quiet in how they love, but they love deeply through action and service. He may not always say it, but he worries about whether he’s doing enough. Tell him that you notice the small things he does. Let him know that he doesn’t have to be perfect to be appreciated. A Virgo man needs to hear that his efforts matter and that his calm, reliable presence is valued. Speak gently, with gratitude and sincerity—and you’ll reach a place in his heart he rarely lets anyone access.
Libra
“You make everything feel more beautiful—I love being around your energy.” Libra men want harmony, connection, and affection. They need to feel like the relationship is flowing, balanced, and full of warmth. Letting him know that his presence brings calm and joy into your life is exactly what his soul wants to hear. He also loves being admired for his charm, intelligence, and social grace. Compliment him sincerely and let him know he makes life sweeter. Libra men love partnership—they want to feel like a team. So, remind him often that you love being in this with him, not just beside him.
Scorpio
“I trust you completely—your loyalty means everything to me.” Scorpio men are passionate, intense, and fiercely loyal—but they’re also deeply guarded. He needs to feel safe before he lets his walls down. Letting him know that you see his loyalty and trust it is a powerful way to connect with him. Tell him that you’re not afraid of his depth, that you appreciate his honesty, and that he doesn’t have to hide anything from you. Scorpio men long for intimacy that goes far beneath the surface. When he knows he’s emotionally safe with you, he’ll give you a love that’s unshakable.
Sagittarius
“Life with you is an adventure—I love your spirit.” Sagittarius men thrive on freedom, fun, and forward motion. They fear feeling trapped or dull, so when you tell them you love their adventurous energy, it makes them feel accepted for who they truly are. A Sag needs to know that you’re with him, not trying to change him. Praise his curiosity, spontaneity, and boldness. Let him know you enjoy growing with him, not holding him back. When you celebrate his need to explore life—both physically and mentally—you’ll build a connection that’s full of passion, laughter, and loyalty.
Capricorn
“I see your strength—and I love you for who you are, not just what you do.” Capricorn men carry a lot of pressure on their shoulders. They often measure their worth by achievements, hard work, and how well they provide. What they rarely admit is that they want to be loved for themselves, not just their accomplishments. Telling him that you appreciate his effort while also loving his softer, private side brings him real peace. He won’t always ask for emotional support, but he needs it. Let him know that his presence—not just his performance—is what makes you feel secure.
Aquarius
“I love how different you are—don’t ever change.” Aquarius men are unique, unconventional, and often misunderstood. Deep down, they want to be accepted exactly as they are—quirks, ideas, and all. Telling him that you appreciate his individuality makes him feel emotionally seen. He doesn’t always express emotions traditionally, but he feels deeply. Letting him know that you value his mind, his originality, and his need for space will mean more to him than dramatic displays of affection. Celebrate his uniqueness. Remind him that you love not just how he thinks—but also the heart that fuels all those brilliant thoughts.
Pisces
“I believe in your dreams—and I’m here with you, always.” Pisces men are sensitive, romantic, and deeply imaginative. They often feel like the world doesn’t understand them. That’s why your words of emotional encouragement matter so much. Tell him that his creative mind inspires you. Let him know that you’re on his side, that his softness is safe with you, and that you believe in the future he envisions. Pisces men need emotional connection and reassurance. Reminding him that you accept him fully—daydreams, emotions, and all—makes him feel safe, seen, and deeply loved.